Do you shrink yourself to be more pleasing?
Do you go blank when someone asks you what you want, or make something up in hopes it will turn out well?
Are you confused about why men don’t seem attracted to you, or do you miss the signals?
You’re not alone, sister. So many of us are stymied by the crazy mixed messages we are bombarded with from the media, and even more importantly, by the way we’ve been trained to be silent, appeasing, and people pleasing. It becomes a habit based in fear and self-preservation.
You don’t need this habit, but wow does it take hold when it’s reinforced by attitudes in the culture, commercials, and good old-fashioned female oppression.
The truth is that you are never too much, you’re always enough, and you know way more than you give yourself credit for, you goddess! But how are you supposed to tap into this type of confidence, courage and savvy?
This is my specialty, and I have been through it for decades until I figured it out. I was the ultimate people pleaser, good girl, quiet and polite lady who spent a whole lot of time battling depression, failed relationships, a failed marriage, and even abuse and rape.
My journey to wholeness began very slowly, years before I realized I had a problem. I was training in Law of Attraction and spiritual mysticism early on in my teens, and started my passion for attending transformational workshops in my twenties. But it wasn’t enough to wipe out the low self-worth I was battling. Brilliant teachings and trainings were wonderful, and I benefitted immensely, but they didn’t change the deepest core of my particular emotional and mental wounding.
The process of healing took me three decades and was a relentless search on my part, healing layer after layer after layer. I went through what I would call a spiritual death in my early forties, and the journey back from that was through my ongoing intensive training in the Divine Feminine mysteries, wisewoman teachings, shamanic trainings, and decades of practicing tantric yoga.
I believe there is a reason for everything we experience, and that the soul is imbued with a Divine Plan in collaboration with our inherent desires for ecstasy.
What I offer you now as an elder is the full scope of all that I’ve learned and practiced over my lifetime. One method doesn’t work for everyone, as you are a unique and wondrous creature with a path as intricate and distinct as a snowflake. Every individual has their own story to be lived and liberated into an enlightened legend, and for most of us, the support and guidance of a wise teacher with many experiences and an array of skills is necessary.
My passion is to dive deep with women and peer into their souls, support them to fulfill their Divine Destiny with joy, love, and sensuality as their inherent birthright.
Blissings & Blessings,
Goddess Oceana is a certified Tantric Yoga Teacher, Shaman, and Women’s Empowerment Coach. If you’re a woman who wants to embrace your inner power to attract and create more money, and become a magnet to more positive relationships, go here for the free series, The Seven Goddess Secrets Every Modern Woman Must Know To Live In Passionate Pleasure now.